Dear Miss Pearl,
My homeboy's wife keeps trying to hit on me. Whenever I am at their house, she finds a reason for us to be alone, and then she finds a way to brush her hand against my crotch, or will bend over in front of me.
One time, she asked me to let her see my penis, but I refused. I know that she has messed with at least two dudes out of the group of guys I hang out with including her husband, but I'm not sure how to handle this. I honestly believe that my friend is clueless, he thinks his wife is perfect.
How can I continue to be friends with my boy and avoid his wife?
Please help,
Frustrated Friend
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Dear Frustrated,
Pull that hoe to the side and let her know that the next time she touches you, you will be revealing her hoeassness to her husband! You need to stay as far away from your friends house as possible because, it's apparent that your friend's wife is trash, and if you feel uncomfortable, then don't go where people make you feel that way.
If your friend asks why you've disappeared, then tell him! If he opens the door, then tell him what's bothering you. You don't owe his wife a damned thing, if she's putting you in the middle of her drama, then play your hand.
I'm not sure if you'll get to keep your friend, but if you don't... you'll get over it real quick.
If you want advice from Miss Pearl, send me an email to misspearswindow@yahoo.com
14 comments:
Yeah I think you need to exposed her hoeassness like Anytee said. Hoes like that dont need husbands.
This is just like the letter where a guy wrote in and said that his brothers wife was doing the same thing to him. I remember our words of advice to the brother were that he needed to be careful because if he confronted her she could get mad and turn it around and say that he was hitting on her. I think the same advice stands on this one as well. One of my fiances guys was hitting on me, sayin all kinds of shit when noone was around, even tried to pull his thing out to show me, last summer..I did just what Auntie is telling you to do and told him he needed to quit...well, this spring rolled around, he started comin around again and he did the same damn thing. I checked him once more, told him how I didn't like a man that could smile up in my mans face, drink his beer, smoke his squares and then come try to make a play on his woman. This time I ended up telling my man. We never spoke on it again after that, but I haven't seen that dude since. I think you should go right to your friend. You don't have to get into details but tell him to check his girl. Women are coniving and sneaky, i don't think sayin anything to her will do a damn thing for you. If she's real bad, you might end up in jail for rape or something. Sad, but true.
Oh, yea....Good morning everyone!!
Happy Friday Ayntee & Cousins!!!!
Yes I think you should tell your boy just because he thinks she is perfect. God for bid you let this go on & end up getting caught while her sleezy a$$ hitting on you, she will definitely turn it around on you. He will believe her.
i think he already know his wife is a ho.
I got into the same situation with my friend's raggedy-@$$ husband; I went to go kick it with her on a holiday, but he answered the door and told me she was working. I talked to him maybe a minute more, didn't even enter the crib and left. This heffa calls me after she gets home asking me what the hellI was doing over there if she was gone----WTF?!? He probably told her something stank and she had no business thinking I wanted his trifling @$$, PLEASE!!! I told her the truth and then she looked really stupid. She's allegedly divorcing him now, but I still stay far away from him b/c he's obviously a perv---Ayntee told you right, check her and use your cell phone to catch her in the act, she'll quit then!!!
If you do do it you have to be careful about the way you do it. I would tell him "Man don't ask any questions just TRUST ME PLEASE and DO AS I ASK..YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHY LATER" then tell him to just keep an open eye the entire time your at his house that day. Then chill...if this is the way she acts she'll do it thinking non the wiser and he'll peak her sorry azz out. You just telling hin CAN backfire and he accuse you of lying OR trying to push on her instead of her pushing up on you. Dang she's a dirty sneaky little whore ain't she? Then you have beautiful faithful single sisters out here searcjing for thier sould mate. I dislike un unappreciative negerette!!!!
MORNING AYNTEE, Y'ALL
FRIEND - YOUR BOY SEEMS TO HAVE HIS HEAD IN THE CLOUDS IF IT'S TRUE THAT WIFEY MESSED WITH 2 OTHER GUYS IN THE CREW. MAYBE HE KNOW HE GOTTA HOE. IF YOU TELL HIM, HE JUST MAY FLIP THE SCRIPT ON YOU, IF HE DOES THAT'S HIS LOSS. BE PERPARED FOR WHAT MAY COME.
Tape her coming on to you on a nanny cam and show it to your friend!
YEP. TELL HIM, KUZ IF SHE SAY SUMTHIN FIRST, SHE GONE TURN IT AROUND ON U. NOW THE OTHER TWO DUDES, THEM NIGGAS SUM HOEZ, AND THEY AINT HIS FRIENDS. THEY MAY BE, BUT Y NOT JUST SAY, HEY BRO, I FUKKED YA BITCH, SHE A SLUT, SHE FUKKED RAY RAY TOO, SO YOU NEED TO LET THAT HOE MAKE IT BRO.
SEE HOW SIMPLE DAT IS.
YOU LETTIN YO PATNA LIVE A LIE. IF HE CHOOSE TO STAY WIT DA BITCH, JUST MOVE AROUND.
S.W.A.T
Oh wow this is ridiculous.
Hmmmmmm....let's see, it's hard for one to imagine you guys are just sitting there and she's like "oh by the way can I see your PENIS", do you entertain her flirting, if so, STOP and yes i agree with ms. P stay AWAY and let him know, she's TRYING to phuck YOU, she could turn this all around especially if he thinks she's PERFECT...poor guy, this is Pussy Power at it's finest, she's literally BLINDED the guy SMDH!
oh almost forgot my man's guy friend stopped by last nite around 8 pm, he was knocking on the door LIKE THE POLICE, I had just got out the shower and was getting ready for bed, when I heard him at the door, I was like you know e's not here so, is everything okay. And he was like, we fam, can I come in? I was like hmmm...no. My man doesn't play that and when i told him his friend came by looking for him he WTFO on his friend and put him in his place, temptations are a muthaphuka so why even put yourself in certain positions...
What's Up Fam
I agree with superbiatch
If all of this has been one sided then you have to be very careful in the way that you aproach your boy about the sutuation because
A)she can turn this around and make it look like you were hitting on her
or
B)your boy might think that you are lieing on his "perfect" wife
Be careful because if you dont want to lose your friend you have to handle the situation with caution
remember that he loves this woman so naturally he is not going to want to believe that his wife is a dirty WHORE
GOOD LUCK
Have a good father's day weekend Fam!!!!!!!!
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