Dear Miss Pearl,
I don't know where to start but I'm just going to start with the fact that my ex-girlfriend ended up confessing to being a lesbian after we had two kids together. I flipped out at first, but I didn't try to take my kids because my moms say she is a good mother which she is.
What piss me off is she said she knew she liked girls before we even got together, but it didn't matter. She said she wanted to be with a man because the women she was with could not take care of her.
So I got this mistrust for women now and I started cheating them all like a piece of meat and doing my thing, but then I fell for this chick and we started hanging tight for a minute, then I started messing around on her. She got close with my kids after we moved in together so, she would go pick them up from my baby mama house from time to time.
You guessed it, my ex called me to say that she was sleeping with my gal and when I confronted her she said she didn't expect it to happen and that she ain't really gay, but she did it to get back at me for cheating on her the first time and after that, my ex kept pestering her and she did it again.
I kicked her out of my house and took my kids from my ex and I told everybody that they dikes. My 12 year old son is mad at me now because he said I told everybody about his mother and he wants to go home, but my youngest wants to stay with me, should I let my oldest son go back to his moms and split my boys up?
Kearic
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Dear Kearic,
I don't know why you think that you're any different than your ex, both of you are scandalous as hell if you ask me. She don't mind messing around, and neither do you, so you should have stayed together.
It seems to me that your boys will get an equal dose of immorality no matter which of you they end up with, and you need to make up your mind which side of the fence you're goin to be on. Either you're OK with your ex being a les bian, or you're going to get mad and take your boys from her because of it, but you can't keep going back and forth.
She definitely ain't $hit for sleeping with your woman, but that has nothing to do with being a lebby, it's nasty because it's your girlfriend! You and your ex need to decide what your relationship is going to be because it's effed up for those kids if you're going to be in a relationship with a woman who may, or may not play a role in their lives, but then she can't come around because their mammy the strumpet is going to try to get with her.
Now, as far as your girlfriend goes, you have to make a decision. It's one thing to "pay you back" for cheating, but there's something a little extra immoral about doing it with your ex!!! Let that hoe go, but make sure that you don't make yourself out to be a victim - you cheated on HER too. Her issue is WHO she cheated with.
And no, I don't think those boys need to be separated. Make up your mind where they will live and keep them there.
If you want advice from Miss Pearl, send me an email to: misspearlswindow@yahoo.com
4 comments:
You are two peas in a fucked up bout' to get AIDS pod!
Why not let both go visit for weekends & extended stays for holidays & the summer. That's still their mother regardless of her sexual turn on. U were wrong 2 spread her business as U did. Hope U dont think that made U a better or bigger man.
I dont feel sorry for you ass at all thats what you get!!! You used to excuse that she told you she was gay to go out and cheat! You can't tell me that you cheating just started after hearing that shit! im not buying it at all!!
You went on to say that you treated women like a piece of eat. well now you are the meat and they dont give a shit about you and they are doing their own thing. Don't hate cause you were left out! Just sounds like you got played! Deal with it! Big ya big boy drawz on now and act like a damn parent!
This sounds like something straight from The Deck. LOL. I cannot even fathom a woman of mines sleeping with my ex whom, from the sounds of it, I have drama with already.
Mercy. I feel for the dude.
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