Dear Miss Pearl,
I have a huge problem. I have been dating a guy for 8
months and even though I realize that he's never going to be husband material, I
can't help that I've fallen in love with him. He has four kids by three
different women, and from what I understand, doesn't do much in the way of child
support, and he hustles to make ends meet.
I don't really require him to
take care of me because I can take care of myself. The problem is that I have
gotten pregnant and I don't want to keep the child because my goal in life was
not to end up a "baby mama".
My family doesn't really believe in
abortions, so I can't go to my sister or my mom, but what do you think I should
do with this baby? Should I have it, or should I rid myself of this "issue"
before it's too late?
You kinda dumb ain't you? You don't want to be a baby mama, but
you're having unprotected sex with a man who has made babies with at least
three other women? What did you expect to happen?
You have a number
of issues, the first one being the you're having unprotected sex in 2008 with a
man who has apparently made it a practice to practice unsafe
sex. And indigative of that is the fact that he's made four count
em, four babies that he apparently didn't want. You're lucky
that you didn't wake up to more than a missed period, little girl - so, instead
of callin' on Pearl, I'd be callin' on God right about now.
don't want to be a mother, yet you don't want to protect yourself from getting
pregnant? And to add insult to injury, you've gotten pregnant by a man who not
only doesn't have a job, but doesn't take care of his OTHER four children? Are
you alright, boo? You don't seem to be that bright to me.
You need to sit
your ass down somewhere. I have a rule as it relates to abortion: I don't
believe in them - for me! That means that I would never abort a child
of mine, but I would never have input as far as what someone else
should do with hers. I can't help you. All I can tell you to do is to weigh your
your pros and cons and make your decision from there, because if you're waiting
on me to help you make the decision to have an abortion - you can keep waiting
because it's not going to happen.
If you want advice from Miss Pearl,
send me an email to: Misspearlswindow@yahoo.com