Let me say this about this "debate", and this will be the last time I address this issue from a personal perspective. To say that you don't believe someone, and to flat out say that a person is lying is two total different things.
I don't know if that man beat the hell out of that girl or not, but I won't say that I need to see proof in order to believe her because it sends the wrong message to women who are being abused - to women who have been raped, beaten, whatever. If a teenager says she was molested, do you require proof, or is she automatically a liar because she drinks and smokes.
I will say that this broad never said who beat her a$$, but the night she said, "I was abused..." without saying any names - he automatically went to Twitter. I will say that I find it awful interesting that since you basically told us that she was talking about you this woman has gone on record saying that you beat her a$$, and your response was not a cease and desist - it was to go on Twitter and call her out for having a fake a$$ and breast that you paid for. That's a very interesting response considering your reputation is everything in Hollyweird.
The authorities need proof - I need to tread lightly. I can't automatically assume he did it just because she said it, just like I can't automatically say he didn't do it just because he said it. That's why you remain neutral in these kinds of issues and you stay in your lane.
OK, you know them both, great. You should simply say, "I've never seen that side of him. He says he didn't, she says he did - I was not there, and I don't have any other comment." but Rasheeda recently addressed rumors that she and K.Michelle fought during the taping of the “Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta” reunion show, and made it clear whose side she’s on when it comes to K.’s beef with Toya Wright.
“We did not get in no physical altercation. That’s a lie. It was so funny to me. I had to laugh when I seen that post on the blogs. Who fabricates these stories?” K. asked the DJs at 107.5 in Columbus.
The day after the reunion show taped, blogs were buzzing with reports that an ambulance had been called to the scene following a full-blown fight between the two reality stars.
“That’s like the craziest thing I’ve ever heard,” said Rasheeda. However, for those who’ve witnessed the ladies’ on-air tension and Twitter beefs, the gossip about actual physical fights doesn’t seem too far-fetched.
“I stepped out of my character, and I went ahead and did it anyway. I just expressed how I felt,” Rasheeda said in reference to her latest Twitter exchange with K.
The relationship between the two music artists is relatively new. They started to forge a friendship when “LHHATL” first began taping; however, they hit a speed bump early on when K. accused Rasheeda’s friend MeMpHiTz Wright of having abused her years ago.
“I had just established a relationship with K. filming the show. She had already known that me and Toya [Wright, MeMpHiTz’s wife] are really, really good friends. The situation went from 'tell Toya that I respect her and I got love for her’ to a whole ‘nother story,” explained Rasheeda, who defended her decision to confront K.Michelle about her claims face to face.
“I was woman enough to ask the question because don’t nobody know the f_ck!n’ facts,” Rasheeda said on Kandi Burruss’ “Kandi Koated Nights” show. (You don't have to know the facts about her story that she was abused. She could very well be lying, and I don't know if she is, or not - but what I can't do, what I won't do is demand proof that you were abused - unless you've already proven yourself to be a liar!) Rasheeda didn’t suggest that K.’s story is completely false, but she did question if it’s the whole truth.
“For me to say, ‘Why would he apologize for something he didn’t do?’ That’s me speaking my opinion because I hear from the horse's mouth over there what he has to say, and I hear her story, and all I want to express to K. is if you’re going to tell the story, just tell the real story. Just be honest about what’s going on,” she said.
While K. understands viewers’ urge to sympathize and defend K., she warns that the singer could have ulterior motives.
“It’s 2012 and people do a whole lot of crazy stuff, whether I’m referring it to her—saying it could be possibly not a full true story or whether I’m referring it to him to say he could be this type or person, he could not be this type of person—I’ve never seen that from him, as far as she’s concerned,” Rasheeda said. (FYI: You don't have to see a violent streak in an abusive man for him to beat the hell out of his woman. There are men who beat their women senseless, and then come out of the house and become Deacon Henry on Sunday morning.)
Although K. insists she has proof of MeMpHiTz’s abuse, nothing has surfaced publicly yet; and until then, Rasheeda and others remain loyal to MeMpHiTz.
“She knows where I sit with this,” Rasheeda said, acknowledging that domestic violence is nothing to take lightly. “It’s a serious issue, but at the end of the day, it’s her story, his story and the truth.”
Watch Rasheeda on “Kandi Koated Nights” below:

I used to get my assed whipped...everyone called me crazy. Till this day, I am the crazy one. I was walking around with black eyes and shit and he would say I did it to my self. He is/was such a charmer, its hard to see through that. People would be like, I grew up with him and I aint never see him act out of character. Behind close doors, this negro would clock me upside the head.
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DeleteRasheeda needs to take HER ASS ON DOWN THE STREET WITH THAT SHIT. Sounds like Meph. Said some shit like, "she was fuckin my homeboy...confronted her..,she hit me, I lost it...". Gtfoh.
ReplyDeleteLET'S QUESTION WHERE THE FUCK WAS RASHEEDA WHEN HER DAUGHTER BECAME PREGNANT AS A VERY YOUNG TEEN. LET'S QUESTION WHY A GRANNY MAMA IS STILL RUNNNING THE STREETS IN PURSUIT OF A FADED ASS DREAM? Sitcho' ass down. Now we ask for fucking receipts from women who are in pain? When has Mz defended himself? I heard once...so is he saying NONE OF THIS HAPPENED OR IT WENT LIKE THIS?
I hate how victims are made to look ....I hope her child never confesses pain to this simple bitch... She'd want the change and receipts because of course he's not like that. I hate to be disgusting but what if Kirt was ever accused of back handing the shit out of one of their kids to the point of abuse? Or worse... Naw, you are a liar because I want proof...gtoh
Why is that ratchet bug bringing her child Into the mix? When people go at you that low its a problem and shows their character! I hope her children are always with her, her number one priorities, and straight A manner able educated little citizens destined to be rocket scientist with comments like that.
ReplyDeleteThis has nothing to do with her! I understand she is friends with them, but she need to mind her damn business.
ReplyDeleteI didn't watch it, but I always did like Rasheeda's old ass for some reason. Haven't heard the new jam though...heard it was garbage, but she can be a bad chick when she wants to be. I hate being out the loop and thanks Auntie for keeping us posted, but this stuff is just too hard for me to look at sometimes....#TooRatchet I have enough drama goin on....SMDH
ReplyDeleteAnd Rasheeda needs to mind her own business....Hoe you wasn't there! And K Michelle needs to find a new topic to discuss and work on her music career. That man done moved on...you do the same!
ReplyDeletegtfoh!!!you fuckin out yo head resheeda real..if im cool with a person im not going to be like oh i aint got nothing to do with it and this bitch talking down on my homegirl in my face making up shit breaking up their relationship think about it and if you are like that you arent a real friend and you need a reality check i wouldnt fight her but i would be like "yo chill out dhats my bitch" ladies get with the program .....rns
DeleteI believe K because she is way too hurt to be lying. I don't care who doesn't agree with me. I was once in a very abusive relationship and no one could imagine my ex doing those things because he was a manipulative POS. He would beat me and have me all upset and when the cops came he'd be real calm and polite. It used to irk my last nerve. Now he's getting his karma. LOL Anyway Rasheeda should just stay out of it.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe K
ReplyDeleteMy bro used to fukk with this Bytch that was full of drama I mean fighting at the clubs and always talking about somebody didn't like her EVERYWHERE she went SOMEBODY had a problem with her
Well I tried to tell him to stay away from her because she was trouble waiting to happen, but NO.....
long story short he fell asleep at her place one night she went through his phone got pissed n set it up to look like he had hit her
called the police his word against hers and he went to jail never having laid a hand on the crazy Bytch
True story
She claim she needs proof ....But do she gat proof that he didn't do it?....it works both ways....
ReplyDeleteRasheeda do need ta sit her old washed up & tired lookin ass down.shes choosin sides bkuz of friendship n she wasn't there n don't know wat really transpired so her ass shoulda jus remained neutral wit them damn bags under her eyes wit her apple head ass and lost music career.....
ReplyDeleteIt's crazy Rasheeda didn't get up when K. was talking about how disrespectful she was to her husband. She jumped up when she said something about the bags under her eyes. SMH! A co-worker of mine told me her daughter was good friends with K. and Mickey aka "Memphitz" did beat K. and take her money. She said she used to feel sorry for her.
ReplyDeleteRASHEEDA WRONG SHOW !!! GO WIT KANDI(SHE SUCK TOO) SUCK ON HER SUM INSTEAD OF SUCKING THE LIFE OUTTA THIS SHOW!! LOOK HOW U TREAT YO MAN , BUT U GOING HARD FOR ANUTHA COUPLE??? WEAK SISTER WEAK! TAKE CARE OF YOUR HOME THEN WIN U OPEN YOUR MOUFF NO ONE CUD POSSIBLY HAVE ANYTHING RESPONSE!! IT TAKE 3 WEAK FEMALES TO STAND AGAINST 1!! TACKY IS AS TACKY DOES THO!! KANDI TOYA RASHEEDA LAST ALLWAYS LASSSST AN SHE SOOOOO SOOO LATE !! TOODLES
ReplyDeleteBeing an abused woman, by a man that no one ever thought would do something like that. I am leaning toward K, only because it did happen to me. Then the thing about it was that if in fact it didn't happen, explain how she was able to get out of everything with the label? Owning her shit? Ijs! But none the less, none of us were there. Only 3 ppl know what really happened and that's K., Memph, and God. One thing I know and two fa sho, God don't sleep and He see's all!!!!!!!!!!
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