Friday, September 14th - Dear Miss Pearl...

Dear Miss Pearl,

My boyfriend Lester and I were together for only six months, but I thought that we were in love. I spent a lot of time at his house and thought that we were getting closer until last week, he went into his bedroom and had a "private" conversation on the telephone. I thought it was strange, but I'm not the jealous type.

He came back out and said that he had to make a run to the store, and I still didn't trip. About ten minutes after he left, there was a knock at the door and it was his ex-girlfriend, who just barged her way in bringing food and an overnight bag. She went into the bedroom and brought my stuff out telling me that my "services" were no longer needed and then proceeded to take the remote control and start watching TV with her friend she brought over.

I kept calling Lester, and he wouldn't answer the phone. When he finally came back, I told him to tell her to go and she was telling him to tell me the same thing, he looked at me and said, that's between yall I'm not in that. I couldn't believe it. I was hurt, but I got my stuff and left.

I came back to his house later that night and her car was still there, so I knew that he was probably having sex with her or something. Now, I just want some closure, but he isn't answering my calls and I can tell that he is sending me straight to voice mail.

Doesn't he owe me an explanation?

Ex Girlfriend
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Dear Ex Girlfriend,

He don't owe you shit!! Why do you even want an explanation, isn't this shit as clear as the sky? He doesn't want you, he chose her over you, and it's time for you to cut your losses and move around, and hopefully while you're moving around, you'll go through some counseling to help you understand why you're interested in hearing anything from a man who allowed another woman to disrespect you in the way that this strumpet did. She deserves him - so give him to her!

You're better than me because by the time he came home, he would have had to pick her ass up off of the floor after I'd finished mopping it up with her ass, but you stuck around - so it's partly your fault. You say you're not the jealous type, and that's what got you into this mess. Sometimes, it's not jealousy, but a mere desire to look out for your damn self that causes a woman to see with her eyes, ears, and her heart. When he took that phone into the bathroom with him, you should have had your ear pressed to the door.

At this point, all you can do is move around, Boo.