Dear Miss Pearl,
I'm 27 and I am dating a girl I met about three months
ago and she's a beautiful girl, looks good, got her head on straight. Dresses in
all designer clothes, drives a nice car and for all intents and purposes, she's
Problem is she's nasty. You know how you meet someone and they seem
perfect, but the minute I stepped into her house, I thought it was a joke. Her
house was disgusting. She had dishes in the sink that had probably been there
for weeks. There were clothes in the living room. Her sofa that had flowers on
it was so nasty that I didn't want to sit on it. Reluctantly, I did and when I
left, I smelled like old funk.
I knew that the rest of the house would be
disgusting and when I had to use the restroom, I prepared myself for the worst.
Miss P, I got in there and it was terrible. She had a used pad in the trash can.
The mirror had spots all over like it hadn't been cleaned in months. the tub was
clean, but the shower curtain was molded and dirty - I didn't even want to TOUCH
After I left, I came back to her house once more a couple of
weeks later to see if maybe I caught her on a bad week, but it was the same, if
not worse. Now, when I see her, we either go out, or she comes to my
Miss Pearl, I like her, but I can't get past the nastiness. My
mother was always a clean woman and raised me to be the same. Am I being Shallow
for not wanting to be with this girl?
Dear Mr. Clean,
Nope, you're not
being shallow. The problem here is that your girlfriend will probably never
change her filthy ways. Some women aren't house keepers (which I find odd since
those are mostly the ones who won't leave the house unless everything is
"perfect".) If you don't want to be with a nasty woman, you have that
Leave her nasty ass right there in all of that filth and find you
a woman who is familiar with some mop and glow and a dust pan! One thing I can't
stand to be around is a nasty assed woman and I don't know what man wants to lay
up on some dusty assed sheets with a stank hoe. Disgusting!!
trick some Ajax and a towel and chuck her diseased ass the duece!