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Wednesday, October 10

Wednesday, October 10th - Dear Miss Pearl...

Dear Miss Pearl,

My brother has a baby by a girl in the neighborhood and this baby doesn't look anything like our family. Most of our family is very dark and all of the men in my family have a short baby finger and this little boy, who is 1 years old is very light like his mother and doesn't have the "finger".

I have told my brother that that isn't his baby, but he says it is and won't listen so it has caused a lot of drama in the family because my brother's girlfriend doesn't want the baby to come around us because I have told the family that it's not his kid.

My mom loves the baby, but even she said that he is "too light" just like his mother. We have VERY strong genes in my family and I know that this isn't my brother's kid. Should I get my mother to babysit the kid and figure out a way to get a DNA test since that seems to be the only way he will understand?

My brother's keeper
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Dear My brother's keeper,

B*tch bye!! If your brother says that it's his baby, it's nobody elses responsibility to try to convince him otherwise! Why do you GIVE a $hit if the baby is his? Apparently he loves the baby and that's all that matters to him, so shut the hell up with your stupid assed reasoning for trying to make the baby NOT his.

It pisses me off that people want to point to their "strong genes" as to why a baby doesn't belong to them. Who the hell are you to determine what strong genes are, and what genetic studies have you conducted that told you that YOUR genes are any stronger than those of the other side of this babies family?

Girl, go sit your ignorant, strong gened, shawt fingered a$$ down somewhere and mind your own business! Stop causing drama where it's unnecessary. If your mother doesn't want anything to do with her "too light" grandchild and you think that he needs to be black and little fingered in order to be in your family, then stay the hell away, because I don't blame the baby mama for not wanting her child around you jackasses.

Have a seat, hoe.

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8 comments:

  1. Find a way 2 get the DNA so that the problem can be cleared up.

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  2. If he was a deadbeat daddy to a black bean short fingered child I wonder what she would have to say! One another note the child is light skinned like his mom who is his mom right. Who said children can't take after their moms anyway?

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  3. People and their paternity tests by eye site. There is nothing that says because 20 children in your family were born dark that every child is going to be born dark. Maybe the girlfriends genes are stronger than his when it came to the skin and features. I wouldn't bring her or the child around either if people were harping about skin color and short fingers...

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  4. Let it go.........

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  5. This is by far the stupidest letter ever written. I'm amazed at the high level of ignorance this person displayed in this hot mess of a letter. I hope this little boy grows up to be President one day and he orders your ass and any of those other short fingered idiots in your family who believe as you do to be shot into outer space.

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  6. People, Especially Family Members, need to mind their own business....this is exactly how problems get started! If he (and your mother) accepts it and is okay with how things are, what's it to you??? #GirlBye

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