Miss Pearl,
I have a boyfriend who is in the army and lives in another
state about 4 1/2 hours away. I love him and I thought that I would never cheat
on him, but I did one time after I heard some girls in his barracks room when I
called him.
I messed around with a dude from my neighborhood named Vick.
He has always been around and is a good friend of mine and my boyfriend, but I
was mad at my boyfriend and was trying to get back at him.
Well, I found
out that Vick has a STD when his sister, who didn't know that I had messed
around with him, told me that his baby mama was mad because he burned her. When
I confronted him, he told me that I gave it to him, and when I went to the
doctor, I found out that I had gonorrhea.
Since I messed around with my
boyfriend without a condom a couple of times since I messed with Vick, I don't
know how to tell him that I have it. I don't know if he gave it to me, or if
Vick did, but I'm embarrassed and I'm scared to tell him.
What should I
do?
Coya
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Dear
Coya,
The first thing you need to do is wranch ya nasty a$$ out and
then find your boyfriend and tell him that you a nasty hoe who cheated
on him and got a venereal disease as a result so that he can go to the clinic to
get himself checked out.
The sad part is, even if he gave it to you, now
you're in the waiting game trying to decide who will tell who first, and the
person who tells first, is the one who will get blamed for the $hit.
You
did it - DEAL WITH IT!!!! Your boyfriend may need to get himself checked out and
I'm sleepy, so pour six gallons of bleach in the toilet and soak your nasty ass
in it.
Bye!
If you want advice from Miss Pearl, send me an email
to: misspearlswindow@yahoo.com
Why are u embarrassed? It is possible that your man gave it to you. Anyway just tell him so he can get treated.
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Yeah it is possible that your boyfriend could have given it to you but.... The way you sleeping around unprotected you only have yourself to blame. Please be careful girl not just STD'S but AIDS that shit is real so find a partner and stick with that one person even still protect yourself.
ReplyDeleteGonorrhea, within three days of contracting it you develop a itch, burn, and yellow puss discharge. So your primary boyfriend haven't figured it out yet then he's a retard.
ReplyDeleteNow if you heard women in his barracks room, it's likely he don't know who gave it to him you or some other unlikely hoe.
Chalk it up as lesson learn, end the relationship and keep it moving and be thankful it doesn't become something farworse..
When will you "ladies" realize cheating on your man for revenge is only hurting yourself. Your outcome of cheating is the prime example. If you think your man is cheating walk away from him, you could do better. You deserve better. If you stick with him get over it and move on. Dang, when will you "ladies" learn.
ReplyDeleteThe question to you is, how do you know for certain he was cheating?
Now you have to just tell him. At this point it doesn't matter who gave it to who.
Another thing, of course Vick will blame you, he won't admit to it. If he slept with you, his baby mama, and who know how many others.
Deleteask anybody..military men, as well as firemen,officers, and club bouncers are hoes!!!! they screw whatever can't get out their way quick enough.
DeleteStop stereo typing if a gone cheat he's gonna cheat no matter what is profession is you can't be around him 24/7 so you have to trust them or move on
DeleteYour action just backfired on U & got U in this position.
ReplyDeleteNow U might as well come clean.
Coya hun, I won't be nasty and rude to you cause I know how it feels to be hurt and want to hurt back. I was cheated on by someone I really loved and every action towards him proved it. I wanted to seek revenge because he went ABOVE AND BEYOND TO DISRESPECT ME, by cheating with NOT 1, BUT 3 HOES in the VERY BUILDING WE LIVED IN. However, I turned to GOD and he requires us to walk in love. "VENGEANCE IS MINE", said the LORD. And most times (NOT ALL), we are so dead bent on hurting the person that we want to exact revenge on, AND IN THE END..WE ARE THE ONES HURT...and TRUTHFULLY we have STOOPED TO THEIR LEVEL. In your mission to hurt him, you caught a sexual transmitted disease. THAT WAS YOUR WARNING...NEXT TIME IT COULD BE AIDS. IT COULD HAVE EASILY BEEN AIDS, seeing how high the disease is among BLACK PEOPLE. BE THANKFUL TO YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER THAT IS WASN'T. AND FROM THIS DAY FORWARD..STOP GIVING UP YOUR PRECIOUS BODY WITHOUT USING PROTECTION. And to be honest, you went around the RED FLAG that was the females laughing in his room. YOU DIDN'T WANT TO KNOW THE TRUTH. I would have simply walked right on in and found out exactly what was going on. YOU IGNORED IT. Anywho, 9.9 out of 10, he has been sleeping with other people outside of you. BE A WOMAN, go to him and say, "Hey, I went for my annual check up and discovered I had Gonorrhea", is there something you would like to tell me. Be sure to say, "I've popped up here a few times without you knowing, and saw and heard things that I already know the answer to. But, to see how much of a man you are, I'll allow you the chance to come clean". This usually works cause the ones who think they are so smart and try to hide things are REALLY the DUMMIES who tell on themselves. 9.9 out of 10 because you told him you are up on game, but want to see where his MANHOOD lies...he will tell on himself. Then there will be no need to tell the cheating scoundrel, that there is a possibility you could have given it to him. CAUSE THE REAL MORAL OF THE STORY IS..WHOMEVER IS CHEATING, IS SLEEPING UNPROTECTED WITH SOMEONE OTHER THAN THE ONE THEY ARE SUPPOSE TO BE COMMITTED TO, AND THAT PERSON THAT THEY ARE CHEATING WITH IS PROBABLY SLEEPING WITH SEVERAL OTHERS UNPROTECTED. WHICH IS TOTAL CESSPOOL FILTH. GOOD LUCK AND STOP LETTING COMMUNITY D@#%! BONK YOU UNPROTECTED!!!!YOU MAY NOT BE SO LUCKY NEXT TIME!
ReplyDeleteYou should have confronted him as soon as you heard a woman in his room.
ReplyDeleteSo...you thought he was sleeping with another woman, and you still turn around and sleep with him? Yuck! Now you and him both sleeping with the same chick. You basically gave your boyfriend the green light to keep cheating (if he is), because you didn't say anything and still sleeping with him. My question is how you getting" revenge", but you the only one that knows it. That isn't hurting your boyfriend one bit, but you over there burning and hurt...was it worth it? Explain how giving your body and spirit to someone that could careless about you is revenge? If you wanted revenge, you should have done something that didn't require you to jeopardize your life, body, nor soul. This whole sleeping around to "get back" at someone that cheated on you mentality is one word...STUPID.
ReplyDeleteYou need some contributing writers. This blogs kicks your ass every single week.
ReplyDeleteMs. Pearl are you ok?! Please come back we miss you!
ReplyDeleteStrike! Strike! Strike! Strike!
ReplyDeleteThey say, what you do on the first of the year is what you will be doing the rest of the year.... Pearl, get old a$$ up out of that chair and 1. take a shower, 2. brush your hair and your teeth (not with the same brush) 3. put on your Sunday wig 4. Dig in your closet for those clothes you know you should have never bought and take them back to Marshals. They will give you a credit and just go to work. You probably still have the receipts to that one flowery shirt with Big Bird on the back. I still don't know why you purchased that one. I don't care if big bird had a diamond in his ear. That bra and panty set can also go back. Who told you, at your age, that you could get back to a size 12. First off, when were you eva a size 12? Next, the tights with the holes... not a good look - at all! Last but not least, What the heck are you going to do with all those rooster pictures?
ReplyDeleteIf you add all of that up, you should probably get bout 86 bucks. You can then turn your phone back on and use your dial-up to get to the internet.
Here's looking for a better outcome and fresh candy in the candy dish... and since we are on the candy dish, can you get those stale pepermint and lemon drops out? The caramel treats can also be refreshed. They all hard. The lemon drops all gooey... ARe you tryong to become the lady on the block that no one wants to accept candy or dinners from on the holidays? Are you going to start peaking out your window? It will get better. It is a new year... You have been violated and we know how that feels. Get a fresh piece of tape and tape that window right back up. Don't let no one get you down. This is your year- Damit!
Miss Pearl I read u everyday! We miss u, come back. Let us know your ok!
ReplyDeleteWell, it happened already and you cannot change what happened in the past. What you can do today is get yourself cured and get a new life.
ReplyDeleteDamn Pearl are you having man troubles?
ReplyDeleteOk Ayntee U have let the whole week go by w/out saying Happy New Year 2 us all.
ReplyDeleteHas it been too cold for U 2 come out on the porch?
Let us know what's going down w/ U.
Pearl we been sitting on the porch...where are u????...are things ok suge?
ReplyDeletePearl we been sitting on the porch...where are u????...are things ok suge?
ReplyDeletewth is going on.... i creep through this site in silence but i had to say something today.... hope pearl is okay!!!
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