Dear Miss Pearl,
I'm 27 years old and I recently broke up with my
girlfriend of 2 1/2 years because I found out that she had sex with my 18 year
old nephew three times in my house. The only reason I found out was because my
mother told me that she had been calling the house for my nephew a little too
much. My ex is 26 years old and should know better than to sleep with a child,
but apparently she didn't.
I had my neighbor watching my house because I
thought she might be up to something and he called me at work to tell me that my
nephew was at my house. I went to pick up my sister, his mother and didn't tell
her why, but we drove to the house and when I walked in, my sister heard my
ex-girl making sex noises and she was ready to go fight my ex and wanted me to
fight whoever she was with. When I opened the bedroom door and she ran in, she
stopped in her tracks when she saw her own son in the bed.
Well, I was
still down to exactly what she wanted to do, so I grabbed my nephew and tried to
rip his head off. I love my nephew, but at that moment, I was going to hurt him
bad because not only was he sleeping with my girlfriend, but this punk was doing
it in MY bed.
Miss Pearl, I GAVE my nephew the car he drove in to get to
my house to f uck my girl and my sister got mad at me. At first she was all down
for the fight because she thought it was disrespectful of ANY man to have sex
with another man's girl in HIS bed, but when she found out that the man was HER
son, she acted like I shouldn't even be mad and the person I should be upset
with is my girl, not him.
I found out after the fact that this wasn't the
first or the second time that this dude has been in my house having sex with my
girl, and then he would call me to ask me for money for studio time even though
his raps are weak, but I did it because I love my nephew.
I have told my
family not to invite me over if he is going to be there because I'm not willing
to smile in his face, or act like things are the same, and my family feels like
I'm wrong and I should always put blood first?
I know he is only 18, but
does that excuse him doing what he did to me and should I feel bad about not
wanting to attend family functions when he is around?
Dear Betrayed Uncle,
being 18 doesn't excuse your nephew for his trifling behavior and your sister
knows damn well that she's wrong WITH her ghetto ass son! If he's 18 and has
figured out how to sneak into a grown man's house and have sex in that man's bed
with his woman - then his ass is old enough to know right from wrong - and at
MINIMUM, he's old enough to know that if you're going to creep with some man's
woman - that man shouldn't be family!
He should consider himself lucky
that all he got was a well whooped ass because men have been lowered 6ft for
much less. It takes some kind of balls to sleep with a woman in her MAN's bed,
but you must have FOUR of them bitches to do it in your UNCLES bed, with
If your sister was riled up when she thought your
girl was in bed with some OTHER man, then she clearly knows the seriousness of
the situation and is trying to play both sides of the fence by acting like it's
suddenly not an issue anymore when she finds out that the triflin' man is her
Hopefully you will get over it, but as of right now, you have every
right to not want to be around your nephew and your family should understand -
eff them and anybody who doesn't understand why you don't want to be around the
man who was caught in your bed with your woman.
kill me with that "blood is thicker than water" shit - damn that, if anybody
owes you anything - it should be family!
If you want advice from
Miss Pearl, send me an email to: email@example.com