Dear Miss Pearl,
I'm 27 years old and I recently broke up with my
girlfriend of 2 1/2 years because I found out that she had sex with my 18 year
old nephew three times in my house. The only reason I found out was because my
mother told me that she had been calling the house for my nephew a little too
much. My ex is 26 years old and should know better than to sleep with a child,
but apparently she didn't.
I had my neighbor watching my house because I
thought she might be up to something and he called me at work to tell me that my
nephew was at my house. I went to pick up my sister, his mother and didn't tell
her why, but we drove to the house and when I walked in, my sister heard my
ex-girl making sex noises and she was ready to go fight my ex and wanted me to
fight whoever she was with. When I opened the bedroom door and she ran in, she
stopped in her tracks when she saw her own son in the bed.
Well, I was
still down to exactly what she wanted to do, so I grabbed my nephew and tried to
rip his head off. I love my nephew, but at that moment, I was going to hurt him
bad because not only was he sleeping with my girlfriend, but this punk was doing
it in MY bed.
Miss Pearl, I GAVE my nephew the car he drove in to get to
my house to f uck my girl and my sister got mad at me. At first she was all down
for the fight because she thought it was disrespectful of ANY man to have sex
with another man's girl in HIS bed, but when she found out that the man was HER
son, she acted like I shouldn't even be mad and the person I should be upset
with is my girl, not him.
I found out after the fact that this wasn't the
first or the second time that this dude has been in my house having sex with my
girl, and then he would call me to ask me for money for studio time even though
his raps are weak, but I did it because I love my nephew.
I have told my
family not to invite me over if he is going to be there because I'm not willing
to smile in his face, or act like things are the same, and my family feels like
I'm wrong and I should always put blood first?
I know he is only 18, but
does that excuse him doing what he did to me and should I feel bad about not
wanting to attend family functions when he is around?
Betrayed
Uncle
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Dear Betrayed Uncle,
Hell no
being 18 doesn't excuse your nephew for his trifling behavior and your sister
knows damn well that she's wrong WITH her ghetto ass son! If he's 18 and has
figured out how to sneak into a grown man's house and have sex in that man's bed
with his woman - then his ass is old enough to know right from wrong - and at
MINIMUM, he's old enough to know that if you're going to creep with some man's
woman - that man shouldn't be family!
He should consider himself lucky
that all he got was a well whooped ass because men have been lowered 6ft for
much less. It takes some kind of balls to sleep with a woman in her MAN's bed,
but you must have FOUR of them bitches to do it in your UNCLES bed, with
his woman!
If your sister was riled up when she thought your
girl was in bed with some OTHER man, then she clearly knows the seriousness of
the situation and is trying to play both sides of the fence by acting like it's
suddenly not an issue anymore when she finds out that the triflin' man is her
son.
Hopefully you will get over it, but as of right now, you have every
right to not want to be around your nephew and your family should understand -
eff them and anybody who doesn't understand why you don't want to be around the
man who was caught in your bed with your woman.
People
kill me with that "blood is thicker than water" shit - damn that, if anybody
owes you anything - it should be family!
If you want advice from
Miss Pearl, send me an email to: misspearlswindow@yahoo.com
*sigh* remix
ReplyDeleteTo those jealous bitches that hate Backlash
ReplyDeleteYou ladies no you bitter ass bitches that take pleasure in trying to put me down. Have failed to do so. Still I wonder why haven't you ladies told the bloggers of this blog those things that made me No.1 in your lives?
How about when I gave an exwife at the time just a girlfriend. I gave you total control over my money when I was military overseas? Why not tell them about how you wanted to upgrade your wardrobe and need money and I told you to take as much as you needed. When you wanted new furniture and wanted to move I didn't complain.
So when I ruined the relationship and told everybody I would hit you all the time. You told your friends that fucking lie. The only time we ever argued was that one night. Beyond that I never laid a hand on you. I kept my promise to your father. One I never should have made, but after thought. As you can see I'm happy.
You speak of my habits how about the bad habits of your boyfriend. Why not tell everyone about the Rattle Snake in your garage and you said something to a co-worker. Me and guest who removed the snake and her newly laid babies. Or about the clowns that try to break into your home and your then boyfriend hauled ass. Whom did you call? Me again. Ho was the person that got your car back for you after your drunken boyfriend snatched you out of it. Taking money from your purse.
With the help of a friend of mine we convinced him to give us the keys and your money. Why not speak about the Valentines Dinner by Candle Light I arranged for you at work. How I arranged the nurses break room into a cozy space for 2. Have you forgotten that. Or instead of treating our children as equals remains crux of your anger.
Guess so
3rd the exgirlfriend who had children pick bugs from cereal before they could eat. Seeing that she had potential to be more. In the end she proved to be nothing more than a crook. Even after helping her getting a job paying $18.00 an hour. A car and a place to car our own.
You see ladies I've may have broken hearts. Men the ladies in my life came first. That's how women need to be treated. As Queens so when they turn their backs on you. You're know a diamond from cut glass.
Or a lady from a bitter whore. Peace out.
PS. Pearl your blog has given me years of pleasure, may you continue to do so. Thank you.
Terry
sorry for the any typos misspellings and anything else. Take care treat your ladies to flowers and make everyday better than the last.
Deleteand never be afraid to apologize and accept responsilbility of any mishap or mistake in your lives.
As usual...bunch of crap...poorly spelled crap. Oh how I wish your fans know that non of what you have written is true. As I previously wrote the chick in that picture is not your wife. You are - right now -married. And that whole meet me at the Omni in Jville for my ass whupping was not from some random woman you wrote that. But as I told you I am too pretty for that kind of violence. Only bad witches are ugly. Besides I livea bith south of Jville.
DeleteNo fans of Blash I am not an ex nor am I jealous. I am just someone from TerryKs past who can not only tell you who his wife is but when and where they were married. I know "N" too. I wish to hell I could reach her but I know she like all of the other wives don't deserve to get hurt like that.
But you are telling on yourself, Hookedohphonics. All of that cursing and bitches and kick ass is revealing who you are and the abuse you have and seemingly continue to inflict on your wives. At the very least you are lying to your current one (pssss....we both know its probably more).
So continue to preach on my brutha on how people are hating on you and doing you wrong. Remember how wifey must feel the next time you mouth off at how wronged you are. Then look at that the sister in your picture and wonder like we do down here...that's not your wife.
Now I have spared you on a bunch of stuff: being the world's so called greatest dad, alleged occupation, etc. But I think your plate is full with the wife thing right now. (Seriously, Valentine's Day? Hard to think about stuff like that - if it actually existed which it did not - while nursing bruises, just saying.)
sometimes family hurts you the most and that is why crazy and abusive stuff stays untold ...yup that "family is thicker than water " pisses me off too..when you love someone you do your best to always do right by them..not take advantage of them cause ur family...
ReplyDeleteAFTER YOU SLAPPED HIM AROUND U SHOULD LET IT GO.Yo ex is a ho he only 18 maybe she seduced him
ReplyDeleteHell his azz is 18 which is certainly an age of consent. No, U should not feel bad about not wanting to be around him.
ReplyDeleteBlood hell. There is such thing as being a decent member of the human race.
I don't know what it is but its sumthing about that Backlash that turns me on! I don't know if its the fact that the ladies keep posting stuff on here about him or his response. But I'm Curioussssss mmmhmmm!!!! lol
ReplyDeleteAnon Curious yes. If that woman in that picture slip up. I'll be more than content to open more than my front door to him. **FANNING** Memory serve me right. One of his haters said he like to hump all night. Hell yea he could get it. Cause 10-15 minutes ain't hitting it at all!
ReplyDeleteLOL...And I remember him giving advice about how to handle a good man that has a huge you know what...he's great but the sex is killing you literally LOLLLL.Heyyy BackLash this is Ain't Complaining...I see you are still being stalked on this blog dang it's been like 5 years now some things never change...LAWD
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