Dear Miss Pearl,
I began dating a woman I'll call Sydney about 11 months ago. She is a good girl
and does a lot of nice things for me. The only problem we really have is that
she is extremely jealous. If I go somewhere, she calls 5 times and doesn't have
anything to say, I can tell that she is just calling to see if I am with someone
else.
My friends laugh at me because we can't even get together for a
drink without her either calling or "popping up" to ask me something. I put up
with a lot of her ways because she a great woman other than this issue, but the
problem is, what may appear to be a small issue for most people has become a
huge issue for me.
Sydney has called my female co-workers when they have
called my work cell phone about work related issues and told them not to call me
anymore. She ran into a woman from my office that she met at one of my office
parties and told her that she was "lucky that she didn't beat her ass at the
party" for dancing with me. When this older, white woman laughed and thought she
was joking, she told her, "Bitch, I'm serious!" The lady was so scared that she
told the boss who asked me to speak with Sydney about it because the co-worker
was intimidated about dealing with me after that.
The last straw for me
came when I came home and Sydney had been to my apartment and gone through all
of my photo albums and high school and college memory books and ripped up every
picture of every woman I ever dated, talked to, or took a picture with. I
couldn't believe it. Right then I called her and told her that I was changing my
locks and wanted her out of my life for good.
She has called begging me
to take her back, but I'm done. My memories and keepsakes from the past were
MINE and I am infuriated that she took it upon herself to destroy my prom
picture from 16 years ago. Those pictures came from my mother's house after my
mom passed away and I don't see why she felt the need to destroy them. She says
that I have no reason to have pictures of my prom or ex-girlfriends, but I look
at it as photos from my past that I want to keep just like she wants to keep
pictures of her best friend's 8th birthday party.
Am I wrong for not
wanting to be with her? Her friends say that I should be more understanding of
her because she was cheated on and I haven't tried to understand her situation.
I say, I have dealt with this for 1 year and I understand all I need to
know.
Who is right?
Tony
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Dear
Tony,
You are! You are under no obligation to stay with a woman who can't
trust you to go into the bathroom and wranch off before you give her a hit
without peeping through the bathroom keyhole to make sure that you aren't
"inappropriately" touching YOURSELF before you touch her!
Your photos,
memories are you own, and I have never understood weak women who are intimidated
by their boyfriends husbands holding on to their own memories. Why are you
normal for wanting to hold on to a photo of your little league team championship
win from 8th grade, but there is something wrong with holding on pictures of the
girl you went to the prom with that same year?
Women need to get over
that bull$hit, seriously! Besides that, this broad has only been in your life
for a YEAR and that's HARDLY enough time to feel comfortable destroying 16 years
of YOUR past.
You did the right thing - let that hoe go and keep on
keepin' on!
If you want advice from Miss Pearl, send me an email to: misspearlswindow@yahoo.com
That is one crazy woman and you crazy for putting up with it. I mean really, does Ms. Pearl have to tell you to leave this psycho alone. Says alot about you, if you are over 23.
ReplyDeleteTony you did the right thing. A crazy woman like that could hurt you or your friends some day. On a side note I saw backlsh latest photo. I must say the couple looks rather charming, but I hope to hell it fails. A part of me hope that woman do what Ms. Florida did to him. ONLY THIS TIME I'LL PRAY SHE TAKE ALL OF YOU MONEY. WRECK YOUR CAR AND BURN DOWN YOUR HOUSE BY THEN LEAVING YOU DESTITUTE! ABOVE ANY WOMAN HE STILL LOVES HIS EXWIFE THAT'S WHY HE KEEPS A SMALL BOOK OF PHOTOS OF THEM FROM WHEN THEY FIRST MET IN FLORIDA 1988 IN HIS SAFE ASK HIM IF IT'S NOT TRUE. I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM! LADIES IF YOU HAVE NO COLLEGE EDUCATION HE WON'T GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY. LIE TO HIM NO MATTER HOW SLIGHT HE'LL WANT TO THROW YOU AWAY LIKE COMMON TRASH! IF HE'S SITTING QUIETLY SOMETHING HAS CROSSED HIS PLATE THAT PISSED HIM OFF. WHEN HE BECOME SILENT DURING AN ARGUMENT BACK AWAY, AND NO WOMAN WANT A MAN INSIDE THEM HUMPING ALL NIGHT. YOU DAM TIDDY BABY! NOW YOU PARADING AROUND WITH THAT YOUNG HOTSY TOTSY BITCH PISH! I KNOW YOU WILL BE DOWN HERE SOON THE 25TH, I'LL SEE YA SOON. SHOUT OUT MS. HOTSY TOTSY IF YOU DON'T LET HIM MASSAGE OH' RUB ON YOUR BUTT HE WON'T FALL ASLEEP. HINT HINT. HE'LL STAY UP ALL NIGHT. TRY BLACK MESH PANTYS AND HE'LL DO WHATEVER YOU SAY. FUNNY THING ALL THE WOMEN YOU'VE LIKE WE ALL HAVE THE SAME BODY SIZE HMMM. LIKE I SAID SEE YA SOON EXLOVER WHITE JETTA RN.
ReplyDeleteStay as far away from her as possible. Dont be giving out your keys to anyone.
ReplyDeleteU are NOT wrong for not wanting to be with her.
if you go back to her. you are just as crazy. she going to stab you next. i know it sounds crazy but this is where its going.
ReplyDeleteTony man if you go back you will know nothing, but misery
ReplyDeleteSince misery loves company, so When you wake up in the morning and the person besides you isn't what you expected them to be.
ReplyDeleteThen realize it's the person you chose for yourself. We can't live in the past we learn from it. Nor making other people lives miserable because our current life stinks.
Just do the best you can and move on find the happiness that you truly deserve and if the person in your life isn't making you happy.
Call your friends don't communicate with some miserable bitter old bitches. Just talk to a friend you'll be surprised on how well it'll make you feel in the long run.
If I wronged you I'm sorry, if you want to make mad know that I've moved on so should you.
Terry
You are absolutely correct letting her go. It will only get worst. She was messing with your money (job). She needs to talk to someone about her insecurities. If she doesn't, she will forever be miserable.
ReplyDeleteTerry AKA Backlash...what in the world DID YOU DO to make a chick "White Jetta RN" put you on blast/cyberstalk you? Now that is a sign of CRAZY that needs to be checked out!
ReplyDeleteTony/Letter Writer--you'd be a fool to go back to someone who is willing to destroy not just your personal items but items that have sentimental value and who is willing to jeopardize your career!! Wake up or you'll be like this Backlash cat with his cyberstalkers aka Looney Toon Broads. IJS!
Tutti tony I'm gone need you to have a seat & call that crazy chick over...tell her to have several seats THEN show her the movie N'Secure...tell her to note what happened to the scorned psycho in the end...then look in the mirror, now her notes..mirror..got it, good! Now put that bitch out the back door!
ReplyDeleteDizzle dating a young hot tamale will do it every time.
ReplyDeleteI have two words for you:Jodi Arias. The psychotic stalker bitch ex-girlfriend who drove from Cali to Arizona periodically to harass and to finally murder Travis Alexander in cold blood. She sexed him up and began photographing him as he showered and then began hacking at him as he tried in vain to defend himself. She rained 29 blows to his body before slashing his neck from ear to ear and shooting him in the head. She too, exhibited some of the behaviors that you ascribe to your psycho bitch and his friends were wary of her as well. Run for your life, Tony. Change your locks, ignore her calls, file for a protective order and a gun permit and count your blessings.
ReplyDeleteSoooo... Am i the only one noticing this crazy bitch Jetta or what.. O_O screw the original post now O m Gee....
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