Dear Miss Pearl,
My boyfriend's sister asked to borrow money from me on
three separate occasions when I first started talking to him and, even though he
told me not to loan it to her, I did. She never repaid any of it and each time
she asked for more, I gave in because I wanted to get along with the family and
I thought that by loaning her money it would get me in good with her
brother.
After a while, I realized why he didn't want me to give her any
money - it was because she is a ghetto b itch who only uses people for their
money and then she talks real bad to you after she realize that she can't get
anymore money from you.
I started asking her about the money she owed me
when she kept asking for even MORE and then she started getting smart saying
stuff like, 'I ate at her mother's house, so she don't owe me
nothing.'
At one point, I really needed my money and I asked her to give
me $150 of the $420 she owes me and I would forget the rest and she told me that
I could just write it all off because she wasn't paying me for anything and then
she started telling me about all the cigarettes she gave me, the times she
dropped me off at work when my boyfriend had my car, etc.
So, the other
day, she came by my house with her brother and they went in my backyard to smoke
and never came inside. She called and asked me to look around my backyard to see
if I saw her wallet and when I went out there, I didn't see it
anywhere.
Yesterday, I went out in the back to let my dog out and I
started picking up cigarette butts and looked on the other side of the brick
wall she must have been sitting on and there was her wallet, with $138.00 in
it.
Now you pretty much know where I'm going. Would I be wrong to keep
it?
Lil Sister
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Dear Lil
Sister,
I don't condone stealing. If it's not yours, you don't take it.
The end. But in THIS situation, I'm inclined to make an exception. Is it
stealing? Technically, yes. But is this the only way you're going to EVER get
your ends back? Yep.
Should you take it? I'm not going to call it, I'm
just going to ask, WWJD? (would Walona & JJ Do It?)
I can't call this
one girl, because my heart is torn between doing the right thing and saying,
"Eff" it, early.
If you want advice from Miss Pearl, send me an email to:
misspearlswindow@yahoo.com
Lil Sister, What size shoe do you wear? See if you can fit it in her azz! Never ever loan money to begiing azz freeloaders!!
ReplyDeleteNever lend money that you need for yourself.
ReplyDeleteEff it Friday will prove interesting and what I post here I will also post Charleston Post news paper blog.
I will use the full name of all people involved.
Lavetta you called me con artist pilot.
You worthless bitch what do you call a person that was involved in an sexual affair with their Step-father after their mother dies?
Then once he had enough of you he put you out of the house.
To me a hoe by any name is still a hoe if not a trifling good for nothing slut.
The position W. M. holds in the Charleston City Coucil could prove embarrassing but since you don't care and she can't seem to reign you in.
So lets let the chips fall where they may.
So if this Lavetta, Wannetta, or David whom she married to currently I'm tired of this bullshit internet harrassment.
U be the better person & give that hoe her wallet & let this be tne end 2 U loaning or giving her any damn $$$$$.
ReplyDeleteTo Pearl and Family
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry for the persons or person that seem to want to rehash my failed marriage here...
So long story short.
I was involved with another woman prior to getting married, but she told me of a friend she went out with a couple of times while I was overseas named David. So I felt she had something while I was overseas whats wrong with a brief fling. 3 Months prior to the marriage I ended the relationship got married and was as happy as could be.
About a year after leaving the ship a friend from the ship contacted me found out that brief fling produced a daughter. Which in fact turns 21 this month.
Hence 21 years I was torn between the love of my life and a child. I wanted both.
Prior to telling my wife then about the child you have Lavetta that was making sexual moves toward me and I wouldn't tell my wife because they were friends.
Well Lavetta told my wife I was making sexual moves toward her and her boyfriend overheard me making the proposition while hiding in another room.
Really!??
He couldn't confront me then so he waits 2 days an got 3 guys to confront me about his girlfriend.
When I went to go out and confront those three bums, I wasn't going out there without a weapon. I'm no fool!
But that Night I was a complete idiot out of control. Wannetta tried to stop me she scratched me in the face trying to stop me from going outside and in my anger I pointed the weapon at her.
I didn't go outside I put the wepon down packed some of my clothes and left the next day.
Leaving my wedding ring in ashtray of the car. I've lived that night over and over again for years. With a broken heart. Since then I've only fell in love twice.
Over the time I've provided for my daughter and I love her with all my heart. Her mother has married and moved on And I've loved this woman in So.Carolina and I've buried that feeling never wanting to deal with it ever again.
Now I've got some derranged bitch picking at a long healed sore scab trying to make it bleed again.
One thing this Hoe Lavetta didn't realize Wannetta talked to me about everything and if you want to play dig up up the past.
Let's play on a large scale I will post this In the Charleston Newspaper blog today.
let's let the people gossip. Lavetta you no good trifling Bitch!
Ayntee, you dig this out of the Dear Miss Pearl time capsule. I am not mad at you.
ReplyDeleteAsk Carrington how's Brooklyn!
DeleteOk, I know it doesn't have much to do with the topic at hand, but SO many side questions:
ReplyDelete"...and each time she asked for more, I gave in because I wanted to get along with the family and I thought that by loaning her money it would get me in good with her brother."
---Do you really think dude's so dull that he doesn't know that's the only reason you were doing it??? #oneoftheoldestinthebook
"I started asking her about the money she owed me when she kept asking for even MORE and then she started getting smart saying stuff like, 'I ate at her mother's house, so she don't owe me nothing.'"
-----Why are you eating at their Mammy's house so much you have a tab???...It's bad enough that dude probably still lives there. Why you eatin there all the damn time too???? Don't you got your own????
"At one point, I really needed my money and I asked her to give me $150 of the $420..."
---Are you like terribly afraid of this chick??? Why such a discount to someone who has been so rude to you? Are you really balling like that???
"...she told me that I could just write it all off..."
---Why didn't you punch her in the mouth right then???
"...the times she dropped me off at work when my boyfriend had my car, etc."
---Why the hell is he driving YOUR car?...Please tell me his is just in the shop and you aren't one of those women who sit in the house all day while a dude drives your car...
"Yesterday, I went out in the back to let my dog out and I started picking up cigarette butts..."
---Ummmm, why you cleaning up after 2 grown ass adults who didn't even have the decency to respect your home again?...
Don't give a mile to individuals who don't even earn your inch sweetpea. Trust and believe...You can do so, so much better.
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ReplyDeleteInternet Stalking by possible North Charleston City workers.
Is this chick seriously asking this question? She should know what to do. Keep it, of course.
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