Dear Miss Pearl,
I am so sick of this b*tch I don't know what to do! She
is the mother of my boyfriend's two children, they're 4 and eight months. This
tramp calls his cell phone all times of the night complaining because she needs
this and she needs that for the kids, but he pays child support for the kids and
I know because I see it come out of his check. He lives with me and that extra
$300 a month would do a lot of good in my house.
To top all of this shit
off, this trick has a man of her own! I have told my boyfriend that he don't
have to give her shit after he gives her child support because that's all the
law requires him to do. (I don't even think the kids are his) By he keeps on
giving her money for pampers and $hit after she spent all her money. If my man's
money comes out of this household to take care of those children, then why
doesn't she ask HER man to help her ass?
I am ready leave my boyfriend,
but he thinks I'm being selfish.
Miss Pearl, is a man required to do more
than pay child support or am I being naive like my man says?
Dear Fed Up,
What I want you to do
after you finish being fed up, is shut the hell up!! Hoe, are you crazy? Maybe
on the planet you live on, a woman can care for two children on $350 a month,
but on earth, where I live, that ain't enough for one person, much less
You're right in that it's possible that the child support order may
have only required him to pay $350, but what can she do with that? Raising
children is a full time job, so while "your" man is off chilling with your
ignorant a$$ after he's paid his "fee". She's the one left with the
responsibility of raising two children.
You's a dumb hoe! Does she have a
job? If so, $350 won't pay child support for one of those kids during the course
of the month, so she's probably still coming out of pocket just for baby sitting
so that she can get to work!! Children aren't on a budget! When they get a cold
and the day care won't take them, mommy has to find another babysitter, or take
off that day (and lose even more money). When that child needs medication, she
has to buy that shit herself! When they want a toy, mama has to buy it. When
they're at the grocery store and they want some cookies, mama spends that money!
Children also don't shit and piss on schedule, so you just never know how many
diapers you'll need.
Is all of that simply her responsibility because
your "man" has done his share with a portion of the babysitting fees in the form
of child support? You need to grow up! Your man is continuing to help her
because as a father, it's his responsibility and it's apparent that he
recognizes the need to do more because he's assisting her in any way that he
Are you seriously suggesting that he allow another man to take care
of his children in order to pacify an ignorant, selfish, childish trick such as
yourself?? See, this is the problem with so many young women - you get a man
who's responsible and trying to take care of his children and you pissed off,
but when you make a baby by a sorry one and he's not taking care of those same
responsibilities, he ain't $hit!
If you want advice
from Miss Pearl, send me an email to: firstname.lastname@example.org