Dear Miss Pearl,
I am so sick of this b*tch I don't know what to do! She
is the mother of my boyfriend's two children, they're 4 and eight months. This
tramp calls his cell phone all times of the night complaining because she needs
this and she needs that for the kids, but he pays child support for the kids and
I know because I see it come out of his check. He lives with me and that extra
$300 a month would do a lot of good in my house.
To top all of this shit
off, this trick has a man of her own! I have told my boyfriend that he don't
have to give her shit after he gives her child support because that's all the
law requires him to do. (I don't even think the kids are his) By he keeps on
giving her money for pampers and $hit after she spent all her money. If my man's
money comes out of this household to take care of those children, then why
doesn't she ask HER man to help her ass?
I am ready leave my boyfriend,
but he thinks I'm being selfish.
Miss Pearl, is a man required to do more
than pay child support or am I being naive like my man says?
Fed
Up
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Dear Fed Up,
What I want you to do
after you finish being fed up, is shut the hell up!! Hoe, are you crazy? Maybe
on the planet you live on, a woman can care for two children on $350 a month,
but on earth, where I live, that ain't enough for one person, much less
two.
You're right in that it's possible that the child support order may
have only required him to pay $350, but what can she do with that? Raising
children is a full time job, so while "your" man is off chilling with your
ignorant a$$ after he's paid his "fee". She's the one left with the
responsibility of raising two children.
You's a dumb hoe! Does she have a
job? If so, $350 won't pay child support for one of those kids during the course
of the month, so she's probably still coming out of pocket just for baby sitting
so that she can get to work!! Children aren't on a budget! When they get a cold
and the day care won't take them, mommy has to find another babysitter, or take
off that day (and lose even more money). When that child needs medication, she
has to buy that shit herself! When they want a toy, mama has to buy it. When
they're at the grocery store and they want some cookies, mama spends that money!
Children also don't shit and piss on schedule, so you just never know how many
diapers you'll need.
Is all of that simply her responsibility because
your "man" has done his share with a portion of the babysitting fees in the form
of child support? You need to grow up! Your man is continuing to help her
because as a father, it's his responsibility and it's apparent that he
recognizes the need to do more because he's assisting her in any way that he
can.
Are you seriously suggesting that he allow another man to take care
of his children in order to pacify an ignorant, selfish, childish trick such as
yourself?? See, this is the problem with so many young women - you get a man
who's responsible and trying to take care of his children and you pissed off,
but when you make a baby by a sorry one and he's not taking care of those same
responsibilities, he ain't $hit!
Grow up!
If you want advice
from Miss Pearl, send me an email to: misspearlswindow@yahoo.com
She needs to be punched in the throat.
ReplyDeleteNot the baby mom, this hoe that wrote the letter.
DeleteFed Up Someone needs to mule kick you in the fucking mouth! $300 dollars for 2 kids ain't shit. These kids have to eat, the mother has to have a baby sitter to watch them. That's competent trust worthy and with today intolerable people that's saying a lot.
ReplyDeleteAs a father...to you women that know me personally can account for this I have given my daughter mother $300 + a week since moving from So. Carolina till I moved to Virginia. My rent was paid late 4 times due to this obligation. I've faced eviction only once in Florida in 1993, because I put the needs of my child over mine. That's 1 child...enough my facts
The mother of the kids have to provide a safe environment for the kids and you think $300 dollars is going to do that for two kids? Bitch Please. Yes I said Bitch! First off why did you let this lame duck move in with you? He created 2 lives and can't provide for a roof over his own head should tell you something you fucking ding bat.
Least of all is when he knocks your ignorant ass up he'll go to the next ghetto hoe. Lord knows it's plenty of you dumb ass cum dumpsters out there. What you need to do is kick that slug to the curve. Because if he can't paid the bills with one check...he need to put in extra hours. You need to understand when it come to kids if his children aren't eating as well he does. Or they don't have shoes on their feet, exactly like their fathers $200 dollar Air Jordan.
Then he ain't doing shit!
Some of you are saying Backlash why so cruel why so harsh. Because my sisters went through the same hell and as their brother I provided for their kids when their father's could not. My younger sister told me once, :how much did you spend on tennis shoes"? I said I won't spend over $40 dollars. Then your child is entitled to the same.
one of you ladies are going through the same stuff with a child father right now. And if a man in your has stepped up to be the father their father won't then show him you care.
Sorry for the typo's and for any of you women as I said know me I've always put in the extra work.
DeleteMs White Jetta RN remember when you told me taking her to Food Lion, JC Penny's is half the work.
But you can't put your child needs before mine you have to cut her loose. Rememeber those very words.
That's what ended the relationship I lived a 1000 deaths leaving So. Carolina to know my child. And to hear that from any woman then you can kiss my ass.....more on that later. And No I won't see you Friday, Saturday, Nor Sunday ever more.
Woo this letter really pissed my buddy backlash off but, I feel every word your saying on this and then sometimes the other women that lay uo with these men get mad at the mothers of these kids the kids was here before your ass was so yes he gotta take care of his responsibilities. Stop runnin your mouth about a situation you know nothing about he's gonna do the same thing to you if you have his kid. Then you'll see how that shit feels.
DeleteI think this is a rerun but anyways the answer is cleary yes you're being selfish as hell.you have two kids with at least one of them is in school (which comes with school projects, school trips, clothes, shoes that's gone be fucked up due to recess, school accessories, the list can go on)and see if they can be taking care of with only the help of only $300.
ReplyDeleteIt is a remix. I didn't realize how my any years I was reading this blog.
DeleteTake your blog jacking ass over to who give a fuck avenue and peddle your wares there cocksucker!
ReplyDeleteDTFL MS PEARL GIVES IT TO THEM STRAIGHT I'M SORRY I WAS ONLY GETTING 300 A MONTH ALSO AND THAT REALLY DIDN'T HELP SHIT SO YES I AGREE CHILD SUPPORT IS ONLY HELP BUT SO MUCH AND IT ALSO DOESN'T RAISE THE KID !!!!! GET IT TOGETHER SWEETIE EITHER DEAL WITH IT OR GET ANOTHER MAN
ReplyDeleteGirl U are fed up & f^cked up in the head. If he f^cked & got those kids then he has an obligation to help take care of them.
ReplyDeleteShould he have doubt that's the purpose of "DNA". Otherwise after 18 years they will both look like him. Now go sit your azz down.
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