Friday, February 15th - Dear Miss Pearl...

Dear Miss Pearl,

When my sister got married three weeks ago, her best friend helped out with the wedding planning and other things just like a best friend does.

After the reception, my sister and her husband got into the limo to drive off to their honeymoon, this chick jumped in WITH them and went to the hotel with them. We were all standing around like, "where is she going?" She got in the car an they drove off. I called my sister (who is very passive) and asked what was going on, but she didn't want to talk about it so I told her to just answer my questions.

I asked her if they were dropping her off somewhere - and she said she didn't know. I asked if she asked if she could get in the limo with them - she said no. Do you WANT her in the limo with you - no. Why is she there then? I don't know. Are you going to take her to the hotel with you - I guess.

I told my sister to put her on the phone so I could tell that b*tch to go HOME, but she wouldn't, so I called my sister's best friend's boyfriend and asked for her number and when I got her on the phone, I told that b*tch that she needs to call a ride and let my sister and her new husband enjoy their first night as man and wife ALONE, but she hung up on me.

I wanted to go to the hotel, but my mother said to leave it alone because my sister and her husband both need to get some backbone. After that weekend, my sister came home and she was totally upset because she said that her best friend stayed with them at the hotel for three straight days, wanting to play cards and sit up and talk and stuff. She even asked my sister to leave her husband at the hotel so they could go to a sale at the mall.

My sister's husband got mad, but her never said nothin to her. I saw this girl the other day and I went off on her to the point where we were about to fight and now my sister is mad at me because I told her that my sister and her husband didn't want her a$$ around.

Did I do something wrong?

Protective Sister
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Dear Protective Sister,

I don't know what to tell you at this point (mostly because my mouth is wide open because I can't believe a b*tch would be bold enough to go on someone's honeymoon with them) but what I REALLY don't understand is that neither your sister, nor her new husband ever said, "b*tch, back up off me!"

And since they didn't, YOU don't have a damn thing to say either! Your sister is an adult, if she didn't go off on her friend... then you shouldn't have either.

Some people don't learn lesson's until they get tired, and if your sister is old enough to get married, her a$$ is old enough to open up her mouth and let the words flow. Let her fight her own damn battles... she'll speak up when she's truly tired of being walked on.

If you want advice from Miss Pearl, send me an email to: misspearlswindow@yahoo.com