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*The above photo features two transgendered women. The second
woman sounds off, below.
First off, a transgendered woman fooling a straight man is
just a myth.
I have a transgendered friend who escorts and even advertises her big endowment (pre-op) in all her Backpage ads, the majority of men responding are married men (wedding bands).
The Amanda Milan case is about a man killing a transgendered women because she tricked him yet these same guys are seen driving on the tranny stroll 24/7. Constantly cruising for trannys, the killer had sex with several of my (tranny) friends but he stuck to his defense (he was tricked).
Most straight men aren't tricked. I've seen too many married men, or guys with their girlfriends cruising for trannys but they physcially attack a tranny after their homeboys or family members find out.
Most hate crimes committed towards "trannys" happen because of "straight man embarassment." I have too many friends who have been killed by a so called straight dude they were sexing because people found out he was dating a tranny.
We constantly see his ass on the stroll looking for t-girls. Believe me when I say, the average "straight male" will sex a tranny, I know this from experience. When other people find out and start making fun of him, he claims he was tricked yet his straight ass was on the block cruising for trannys.
I have a transgendered friend who escorts and even advertises her big endowment (pre-op) in all her Backpage ads, the majority of men responding are married men (wedding bands).
The Amanda Milan case is about a man killing a transgendered women because she tricked him yet these same guys are seen driving on the tranny stroll 24/7. Constantly cruising for trannys, the killer had sex with several of my (tranny) friends but he stuck to his defense (he was tricked).
Most straight men aren't tricked. I've seen too many married men, or guys with their girlfriends cruising for trannys but they physcially attack a tranny after their homeboys or family members find out.
Most hate crimes committed towards "trannys" happen because of "straight man embarassment." I have too many friends who have been killed by a so called straight dude they were sexing because people found out he was dating a tranny.
We constantly see his ass on the stroll looking for t-girls. Believe me when I say, the average "straight male" will sex a tranny, I know this from experience. When other people find out and start making fun of him, he claims he was tricked yet his straight ass was on the block cruising for trannys.
*There may be some truth to what she's saying. A friend in
Detroit told me, traffic is backed up bumper to bumper near a tranny stroll.
Numerous men are hanging out of their cars trying to get with trannys, others
are making u-turns.
So let me get this straight,she stated married dudes seek out his service,! Yea so that means that alot of men r on the DL.I think saying he is a tranny trys to make it sound cute. It should just say a f-ag in a dress with t-itties.
ReplyDeleteToya my brother-in-law is a gay I-don't-know-whatcha-call-it. He is screwing at least 15 different guys a week. Just past Friday nite in Food Lion. He called a man by his middle name. In front of his wife and three children. I've told this fool he's gonna get shot. My wife practically warned him, by buying a dress for his funeral. I'm telling you true. New Years Eve him and his gay friends had a party at the local Holiday Inn. The party became so freaky the managament had it shut down by police. Resulting in three fellow officers being busted. All of which where married. So are married men pursuing gay Trannies? Yes there are. Gay men? Yes they are. Let me just there's no subsitute for a natural vagina and breast. So why are men chasing cock, balls, and a wig. I don't know. I've already told him when my wife have our first child very soon. He's no longer welcomed at our place.
DeleteQuote: "...Resulting in three fellow officers being busted. All of which where married.
DeleteI call BS...Not that a married police cant be gay- chasing tran-sexuals... just that it would have made your town's (Or someone's town) local news- which it didn't!!!
Are there's a bunch of kats out there on the DL ---I'm sure it is. Do gay men tend to exaggerate damn near EVERYTHING from stories to looks, to their mannerisms because they love the attention...? Yes...!! Please stop with this BS Million-Man-Straight-screwing-Gay-March!!
I agree with shim on reasons why they get attacked. So sad. But hey no one told u to tuck ur dick & put on makeup. Just be a gay man.
ReplyDeleteThere was a case where a gay guy/tranny (Gwen Araujo) was killed because he tricked four guys by neglecting to tell them he wasn't a natural-born girl. When suspicions among the group of friends arose, Gwen was called to one of the house where they all hung out all of the time. They asked Gwen to give it to the straight; was he a girl or a boy. Gwen insisted he was a girl. They asked him to prove it by showing his private part and Gwen refused. Gwen ran to the bathroom and locked himself in. One of the guys' girlfriend went in the bathroom with Gwen and told him that if he didn't want to show the group, he could just show her. Gwen still refused. The girl then grabbed Gwen's crotch and discovered the truth. The fours boys then beat Gwen, strangled her and buried the body.
ReplyDeleteMany say that those boys committed a hate crime against Gwen because he was gay. Many also feel that Gwen didn't have to tell those guys the truth about his sexuality. I beg to differ. Gwen performed oral sex on one of the guys and allowed another one to have anal sex with him. Gwen told the guys that she was menstruating during those encounters, so they never saw his body parts. In my opinion, Gwen was deceptive. Maybe Gwen didn't have to announce the fact that he was a tranny, but the second he decided to engage in any type of sexual activity with anyone, man or woman, it was his responsibility to inform his partner of his sexuality.
While I don't condone murder, I resent the fact that people call THIS particular crime a "hate crime." Those guys didn't kille Gwen because he was gay. They killed Gwen because he was deceptive.
I do belive that "straight" men seek out gays/trannies. In fact, I had a gay friend who told me whenever he would visit New Orleans, he would hook up with this man who was married with kids. This was about 18 years ago, so I'm quite sure it's more prevelant now. Cheating is one thing (still not acceptable), but to cheat with another man is so lowdown and dirty. Be who you are and leave your better half out of that equation, unless, of course, she's down with it.
Sorry for the typos.
Delete@LYB
DeleteFrom what I'm seeing is a shift were some men find Trannie's or Gay's easier going sexually than women. This is clearly from observation of others. Women are more sterner than gays. where as Gays are more affectionate than women.
Gay men seemingly are willingly to do things that women won't or hesitate. Which makes single women work harder in some relationship.
I'm not jealous nor gay, but respect the rights of all people. But when it comes to Gays vs Heterosexuals. It's a big shift in the dynamics. Personally I love women till the day I die.
Yet I see more and more men seeking affection from Gays or Trannies. Craigs List and so on..A lady once told all love is beautiful. That I agree.
Still tricking somebody? Really!!!!? Men know 95% of the time or they are a complete idiot.
My opinion on the subject is men are growing tired of women attitudes and games. But Gays/Trannies practice the art of deception far more..
Like that song of Aretha Franklin "Who's Zooming Who".
excuse my errors family. Got a headache. Where I've heard that one before..
DeleteAs for the tricking, I'm not saying it happens all the time. I do believe that a lot of men know exactly what they are getting into. The story I shared above regarding Gwen WAS one of deceit. All involved were young. It only became "evident" that Gwen wasn't a girl when he got into a fight with the girlfriend of one of the guys. The way Gwen handled the girl made the group suspicious. Gwen's own mother warned him against tricking people the way he did.
DeleteAs for the other men fooling around with trannies or gays, do it on your own time; not mine! Don't be MY husband and cheat, let alone cheat with a man. If my husband feel that I'm too difficult to deal with, leave be and be with who you want to be with. But, DO NOT sleep NEXT to me while you're "sleeping" WITH a man. That's not fair to ME.
Men, especially Black men, can REALLY put women through the ringer. Does that make me want to be with a butch woman? No, it doesn't! It just makes me want to find the right man. The fact that a man is turning to other men for love means only one thing; a man is what he wants, period. No matter how badly a man treats me, that does not make me attracted to another woman. So, these men need to be honest with themselves and admit to themselves that they are simply attracted to men, point blank. I have nothing against White men, but all the problems in the world with a Black man could not make me want a White man. That's just not what I'm attracted to. You have to be ATTRACTED to something in order to long for it. I'm not attracted to crack, no matter how bad life gets for me. So, to suggest that men are turning to other men because they are tired of dealing with women baffles me. In my opinion, they are turning to other men because something about those other men are attractive.
Again, if that's your thing, do your thing but don't make me a part of it by deceiving me.
I feel ya Womens#39, but what I'm getting from Backlash is an opinion. Backlash in your opinion, "How many men out of 10 is dating gays on the DL side that is married"?
DeleteExcuse my errors!
Delete@ Backlash, I would like to know the answer, too. What do you think; how many, out of every 10 married men, are dating gays on the DL?
Here's what I find odd... Women (Especially Black women) will applaud gay men, Defend gay men in drag or just ultra-feminine men but get upset when they find out their dating one. I'm in no way suggesting people should be offended by anyone- but if your so cool with laughing, hanging, defending- why is dating some that's bi- so repulsive??
DeleteBeing deceptive is not reason enough to get a death sentence (being killed).
DeleteI don't agree with the Gwen story she didnt owe the guys nothing she was dating the girl, and hanging out with the guys. When they found out they baited her to that house, raped and killed her nobody deserves that. I really hate that people seem to think that human life should be taken at any cost. You hear gay bashing and the word Fag and it's very disrespectful, we are surrounded by all walks of life.
DeleteAnons, please understand that I do not condone what these guys did to Gwen. I just don't think it's fair to call their crime a hate crime. It's not like they sought out a gay person in order to beat or kill him.
DeleteAnon 3:20, Gwen was actually born a male. His name was Edward Araujo. He started living as a girl at the age of 14.
Gwen was not dating the girl he was hanging with. That girl was Gwen's best friend.
As for Gwen not owing these guys anything, that's not true. He owed at leat two of those guys the truth. Gwen performed oral sex on one guy and allowed another one to penetrate his anal. He told the guys he was on his period, which was the reason for them not being able to have "normal" male/female sex. That's deceptive.
Put yourself in those guys' shoes (if you're a woman, just replace Gwen with a lesbian). Imagine this person presents him/herself as the opposite sex and you have some sort of sexual contact with him/her. Later, you find out this person was a male (or female, if you're a female). Would you feel deceived? Or, would you feel that this person was well within his/her rights to trick you into engaging in same-sex relations, something you are not into? Imagine this happening to your son or daughter. . .you don't think this would have some long-term affect on him/her?
Again, I do not condone murder unless there's a damn good reason for it (defending yourself or a loved-one, etc,). All I'm saying is, it's wrong to call this crime a hate crime. It could be that these guys don't have a thing against gays, but it's understandable that they would be devestated and shocked after finding out the truth about the natural sexual make-up of Gwen, a person they had engaged in some sort of sex with. There is a HUGE difference in the two. Like, you may not have a thing against Whites, but a White man presents himself as someoe who can invest your money with good returns but he ends up stealing all of your money. If you kill him, more than likely it's because he left you broke, therefore, it's not fait to call your crime a hate crime. You commited a crime because he deceived you. Are you wrong for committing murder? Yes. Was the White guy at fault to SOME degree for what happened to him? Yes. It still doesn't make what you did right, but, it's just not fair to call what you did a hate crime. You did't seek this man out and kill him because he was White.
I also think it's wrong for Gwen's mother to turn a blind eye to the role that Gwen played in this and not accept the fact that Gwen is at fault to SOME degree. After all, she herself worried about Gwen's deception, so much so that she warned an even begged Gwen on many nights, including that fateful night, not to go to those guys' house dressed like a girl.
The Bible even says it: "You live by the sword, you die by the sword." The Bible is not condoning murder; it's just simply saying, you reap what you sow. And, it can be a vicious, never-ending cycle. . .
I donk want to say...7 but if I were to guest.
ReplyDelete4 out of 10 now I've really have a bad headache. I've got a post I will put up called the "Pussy Games". All women I would like for you to responds if you like anonymous. Pearl's next remix.
LYB
ReplyDeleteWhat I meant to say I know of 7 for a fact. We're not friends. Nor would I out them. That's their business not mine. I was just shocked when I found out.
Oh, I'm not saying to out them. I was just wondering, in general, about how many married men are on the DL. Hale, this goes for DL women, too.
DeleteAre you serious!!
DeleteOne man cant possibly speak for all or even 7 men...
That's like asking- How many men take care of their kids? How many men shower daily? How many black men date ONLY white women?
Please stop! While I realize women just want answers- You cant get the answers you desire from one source.
Anon, I know you don't know me and maybe you didn't mean to, but you insulted MY intelligence.
DeleteAnon, you DO realize we asked Backlash for his OPINION, right? Please know and understand that I have enough common sense to know that no one person can factually speak for an entire group on topics such as this one.
I CAN very well ask you, "Anon, in YOUR opinion, how many men take care of their kids?" or, "How many Black men shower daily?" or "How many Black men date White women ONLY?" I realize the answer that YOU will give will be YOUR opinion. It's just like "Family Feud," when Steve Harvey reads the question, "The top 10 answers are on the board. We asked 100 people: At what age does a boy starts wiping off his mother's kisses?" There are TEN answers on the board, meaning there were at least TEN differences of opinions.
We are just having friendly, interesting conversation.
To insult your intelligence was not my intent. It just bothers me to hear people speak on situations like its factual. I have yet to meet a sistah that finds it difficult not to buy into the the negativity of black men without doing the research for themselves. Again... NOT pointing fingers at you- I merely stated it IMPOSSIBLE for one man to speak for all men!
DeleteThank you, Anon.
DeleteBelieve me, I am not one who believes EVERY myth about any particular subject or group. I do my research on anything that really peaks my interest. But, a subject such as this one is close to impossible to actually do "research" that will return accurate facts because most men will probably not be honest with themselves, let alone a poll!!
I understand your frustrations in regards to the negativity portrayed of Black men. I have two Black sons, one Black grandson, twin Black grandsons on the way, two Black brothers and a Black husband. I do NOT buy into negativity of Black men. In fact, I try my best to instill the necessary attributes in my Black sons (and my Black grandsons as they grow) that will help dispel the negativity of Black men. I mean, if I want my offsprings and their offsprings to be men that women like me are looking for, I have to put in the work. We can't complain about something while we continue to be part of the problem. Unfortunately, some of us raise sorry men, but we don't want sorry men. . .but where do we think good men come from? They come from US, that is, of course, if we raise them!
I applaud what you just said- -
DeleteHere's where I'm coming from and it sounds like you understand 200%! A lot of women will spread gossip about belittling black men Without the research to back it up... Here's my point; Ask a slew of sistahs where's the gayest city in the US and Most will agree San Fran But will throw Atlanta in the top 5 (right in there w\ NY, DC, Miami, Chicago, Detroit...) But Atlanta isn't in the top 5---or the top 10 for that matter but some kat writes a book about married men he's slept with and its a best seller- offering ZERO proof but almost solely financially supported by black women.
What you mentioned re; polls speaks volumes because men who aren't comfortable speaking about their sexuality wont participate even in a blind poll- I cant debate that but the damage is done with or without it...
Proof...
Top 10 gayest cities
10. Grand Raids, MI
9. Miami, FL
8. Knoxville, TN
7. Minneapolis, MN
6. Ann Arbor, MI
5. Seattle, WA
4. Ft. Lauderdale, FL
3. Cambrdge, MA
2. Orlando, FL
1. Salt Lake City, UT
I know more women that read; Men on the DL and Karrine Steffans book than can name one brotha that belongs to the origination 100 Black Men!!
There's 200 Chapters (100 on the books)
It's clearly a regional thing.
DeleteEvery rabbit to his own habit.
ReplyDeleteHave fun.
Lyb and Anon
ReplyDeleteLet's say I work indirectly with 50 men. Of those men 7 are DL, here's the part I left out intentionally.
The Gay dress up person is Black.
Their partners are all White.
When I found out about one of the men he tried to explain himself and I told him I didn't care that's his business. He kept trying to explain himself trying no to lose my respect. In the long end of it. He told me about the other guys.
Each of them are married with children and or children on the way.
Brothers I know of a couple and they don't seem to care if they are with a female or not.
That's the shift. some men just don't care it's like watching Britny and Madonna kissing. They don't care.
And when their d!cks are chopped off Lorena Bobbit style, they better not say NOTHING!!! LOL!!! Just kidding, but it troubles me when people are deceptive and they involve unsuspecting partners in their lifestyle choices. I remember years ago while I was looking for a particular news item, I ran across stories AIDS in Africa and the reasoning behind the outbreak. These articles stated that there are many married men in Africa who are bisexual. Many of the men chose to have relations with young, virgin men because they believed they were AIDS-free (but, I thought, "What about those who were possible born with the disease? What about the ones who lied about being a virgin or lied about not having AIDS? What about your wives, the ones you're bringing the disease home to? What about the families you're deceiving?"
DeleteIt's the deception that bothers me. I just don't understand how people just don't care about what they are doing to others, especially in situations such as this one. They hide behind their wives and kids because they're too cowardly to live their lives out in the open.